Wait a damn minute!!! N'est-ce pas une pute!

My post yesterday was a little push to fill the female spirit with some positive profoundness.  However, last night I got to thinking ... I should get into a habit of adding a little bit of story behind the message.  So here's a story and the message for today:

Some time ago I met an older, kinda "easy-on-the-eyes" and a somewhat knowledgeable woman (at least these were my initial  impressions).  This woman use to talk to me about surviving in corporate and staying ahead of the game.  She talked about how she moved up fast to management and always with a smile on her face, she would say... You're not there yet, but you'll get there someday.  As months went by her comments never held any weight until they started getting condescending and personal.  Then one day she opened opened her mouth and unleashed the Wolverine in me (yep that's that Michigan Wolverine!).  I had to pump the breaks on this Bitch real quick! Wait a damn minute!!!  N'est-ce pas une pute!

What I love about working in a small community is... that it's small and there are about 3-degrees of separation in a small community.  So, I started asking around about this woman and I discovered some quite astounding intell.  Wait a minute!!!  (1) I found out that this woman was known for twistin' the truth (explains the fabrication of stories I heard about co-workers); (2) She admitted that she never makes a move without a motive (when it comes to her career); and (3) Her speedy ascension to management included bobbin' and slobbin' (with consent from her husband)!  http://youtu.be/T6j4f8cHBIM

Ladies!!! this is the proper term for what is called an Office Pro!  She has graduated from Hoe status to a Pro status! during her tenure in another office.  She is now in a position where no man in his right mind wants to see her get down on the floor, so she enjoys degrading others - preferably the attractive young ones.  Watching them gravel and beg for their jobs.  Enjoying the suffering of others as she keeps the fake smile whitened and the gray roots bleached blond... still trying to lose 50+ lbs.  Don't feel sad for her because she made this bed of thorns that she has to lye in.  Countless people have prayed for her - even I, but she has surrounded herself with so much negativity, lies and deceit that it is like an impenetrable cloud.  All the praying in the world can't help this one.  Unfortunately, she is going to have to want to change herself in order to salvage what a normal life even feels like.

Ladies remember do positive things for yourself and NOT negative things to yourself or others - like this dumb-ass.  It is sad to see that this woman had to use 'up' what she had to get where she is.  Don't get it twisted, this woman that I described is driving around in a nice ride, living well, making nice figures, but she is unquestionably Unhappy, unhappy and will always be unhappy!

My last bit of advice:  School your children on Bitches like this.  Teach them to recognize the game and how to maneuver to keep Bitches like this in line.

Keep It Real and Much Love!
Ann U ROC

 

Give back to that Vivacious beauty!

As women, whether married or single, we often lose ourselves in people, habits or vices.  We give to our boyfriends, girlfriends, spouses, friends, children, loved-ones, school, careers, making money, maintaining titles, sex or other habits and vices.  YOU need to stop!  Take a moment, look into the mirror and ask that beauty lady - "What have you done for me lately?"  I know it's hard not to thing about Janet Jackson, but on a serious note... you need to make time for YOU.  I am giving you the authority to Feel... NO guilt, NO remorse, NO sadness and NO shame!  Indulge in yourself today.  Give back to that Vivacious beauty in the mirror that has been forgotten.  It's time to find your Centered Hemisphere and re-discover YOU!

God Bless & Much Love!
Ann U ROC